Learning to forgive

Idk why it’s so hard for me to forgive some people. It’s been 10 years since my step sister lied to me and started dating my abuser. Told him where I was and led him to me where I was beat so badly I was put into the hospital and given court mandated therapy for a year.

Seeing where she is in life now is a weird feeling. She’s a teacher now with what looks like a nice boyfriend. I’ve moved on and I have a great life.

I’ve been feeling like I should try to talk to her to reconcile what had happened. My therapist says that wanting to forgive her is more for me than it is for her but it wouldn’t hurt to have a talk with her.

I don’t know if I should talk to her. I don’t know if I should try to forgive her for all that she’s done. I’m not even sure if I want to have a relationship with her.