I think my boyfriends daughter hates me now

I've been with a boyfriend a while now. He has an adult daughter who's a stripper. She became a stripper because she likes to sing and perform and the club she works at allows her to sing and even sing her own songs. She talks about being a stripper a lot and she has no filter. She has autism and ADHD so my boyfriend said that's why she has no filter. I was talking to him a few days ago saying that I do think it's scary that people autism are allowed to work in adult entertainment. I have told him this before and he just says she is an adult. He has no control over that. I said isn't there an adult protective services and he said she is high functioning and can make those decisions. I guess she heard my conversation with her dad because she was upstairs and she stopped me today and tell me that I can disagree with her being a stripper but what I will not do is infantilise her to her dad. I told her I wasn't trying to but she said to go take a psychology class because she has autism which isn't an intellectual disability and she is a grown ass woman and just like she can consent to having sex with her boyfriend. She can consent to being a stripper. That she may not a stripper forever but I need to understand that she's grown and do not talk about her like she's a child. I apologized and she just walked off. I don't want her to hurt me. She's a very sweet and fun girl and I was just concerned for her.