Insecure…

Everywhere we go my partner can find someone to laugh with. He likes making jokes to woman and it’s mainly woman he seeks attention to..

idk is all men like this ? Maybe I’m overly insecure. He would be upset if a “friends “ girl friend doesn’t give him attention.

I don’t seem to see other men doing this.

He is specially funny and extra helpful to woman only.. I mean he got guy friends forsure.

Am I over reacting on my own feelings. I don’t bring it up because I feel like it’s a me problem…

The thing that really makes me confused is he would accuse me of flirting or sleeping with people just by going to grocery store. He is extra jealous of any interaction. That don’t even exist because I’m not as social as him. But I seem to find it fishy now. That I feel his intentions are what he accuses me of.

“Projection? “

I know this isn’t healthy of him.. but what about of me? Is it same or what.

How is your men with other woman?

Is this normal ? No men gives me attention or makes me laugh randomly at a grocery store like he does to others.

Is that flirting ? Idk someone enlightening me and share some ways to help me over come jealousy if it’s a me problem.

To add: we been together 10 years and have two children.

Update: I finally said something and even tho I got the “ I make money I can do as I please”

I feel good I finally listened to my gut. It’s a new feeling. I’m in process of letting got. ( a very slow process) I hope I’m not just avoiding what needs done.. thank you all 💓