Am I wrong?

Can anyone tell me if I’m wrong so me and my boyfriend been together for 7 years and I have to go to sleep with sound I usually have my phone playing a stupid show on the lowest volume next to me on the bed on my side, I moved in with him 5 years ago and it has been the same going to sleep like that every single day drunk or sober, so all of a sudden he is getting mad and telling me he need complete silence I need to turn off my phone and he grab my phone and took it away for the night and said I can’t use it at all, so I was up until he left to work this morning and than I was able to play a show and within less than a minute I was sleeping. A little back story my boyfriend been working 2 jobs for 2 years and it’s not for us we don’t have kids, car note, his rent is cheap, he want to open a business for himself that is why he is working the second job and sometime he work 2 -3 days on the weekdays and when he does he will come home to sleep for 2 hours and less, like this second job made him so mean to me and others I have so much to say about that, but however this habit of me going to sleep with sound is something I’ve done forever long before I met him and he had no problem, in 2 separate occasions he brought me something to use so I can use my phone better while I’m sleeping, oh and not to mention last night I didn’t sleep with him because he lied to me and if I had sex with him last night I could of use my phone but because I didn’t that’s why he took it away. So with all the information am I wrong?

Update: the reason why I never wear a headphone because it was never a problem this is the second time he took my phone within 2 weeks and his reasoning was if I had sex with him than I could of watch a show, and I just got the new iPhone so I don’t have headphone that is compatible with it, I told him to buy me headphones because he also took his bank card from me. I wish I knew 7 years ago it was a problem so I could accommodate.