Do you give your husband an allowance?

If you’re the “bread winner” and your husband likes to spend money, do you give him an allowance? I hardly make enough money to make rent and bills and he doesn’t work (SAHD), but he says he needs things to keep his sanity being the only male in a home full of girls (3 year old and 1 year old and me). But we don’t have any extra spending money. He just spent $200 on something to entertain all of us but honesty something he can share with the girls more so, but anyway WTF. Am I supposed do give him an allowance?? Because I’m tired of him blaming me for his unhappiness but then spending money anyway.

Update: Thank you all for your input. When I said “allowance” I wasn’t referring to withholding all expenses, what I envisioned was and is what a lot of you are saying: budgeting. Thank you for your input. He kind of leaves all the money counting up to me, ie. making sure ends are meeting but then is upset when we don’t have enough extra. But I’ve been trying to write down and budget our expenses with no help from him. I’m always the one to do our taxes, and pay all the bills. He doesn’t even do so much as walk the check to the front office.