Preparing

I know this is probs gonna sound strange and I shouldn’t worry😂

Basically i’ve been speaking to a guy since Xmas now (he’s been living in Australia for a year and he’s coming home in June) He’s from my area and I’ve known him for years through other friends etc. Things have become serious and we’ve been planning to see each other when he’s home and I can tell things will probably go further.

It’s been nearly 3 years since i’ve had sex with anyone, and i just feel like it’s going to feel like my first time all over again. I’ve previously bled when i’ve had sex before after not doing it for a while and I don’t want this to happen again. I also don’t want it to hurt or be painful because it’s been so long and i’ll be tight.

How do I prepare (if that’s the right way of saying it) for the first time I’ll have sex again. I know you probably can’t really prepare and just have to let it happen and what will be will be, I just don’t want to be in pain or bleed🤨

Thanks in advance girlies🤍