My marriage is dwindling

Y’all I’m soo tired. My marriage feels one sided and has felt this way for a while now . My husband has 4 bills . Our phones , his car note , his credit cards , and half the rent . Meanwhile I’m paying half the rent , my car note , our insurance , all utilities , and my credit cards . I’ve paid for every single vacation and often foot the bill for our dates .

His job has been inconsistent with hours which has caused him to skimp out on certain bills . I work in sales and have a business line along with my personal . He decided not to communicate with me about this and now our phones are off. I’m not willing to take on another bill when I’m already paying EVERYTHING ELSE !

He refuses to work at a fast food place , despite them paying MORE than his job does . Now he’s posting mental health stuff and when I try to ask him if he’s okay or wants to talk … he never does . When I attempt to communicate about his feelings — he gets upset or shuts down .

I’m just tired of fighting for our relationship and trying to find avenues to make things work. It sucks being met with anger or frustration . What do i do ?