Ignoring issues/red flags for the sake of unborn child

Idk I’m just sorta discontent with my relationship with my “fiancée” he barely pays any bills and then sometimes asks me to pay for majority of the meals. I feel like I made a mistake getting pregnant by him because idk he’s not like my dad who is generous and from time to time will give me money to help out because ya know you do that for people you love and care about.

He is the opposite and seems to hold tightly onto the money he makes from his job. Where it goes I’m not sure, probably to food, his car and whatever other expenses he has. But somehow he’s still broke at the end of the week?? I don’t get it, I pay all the bills and other stuff, get paid BI weekly instead of his every week payment, and I still got money to last me.

I’ve also been watching this TikToker who is radicalized against men. And I wish I would’ve encountered her sooner. Like everything she says feels like the gods honest truth. And maybe there will be some men defenders on here and “not all men “ people but in my experience what she is saying is the truth.

Like she just says stuff like how men are out to humiliate, cheat on and destroy women. Or they leave if their women are sick,unable to perform sex or contribute to unpaid labor in the household. WHILE holding down a job and men expect the king treatment when kings pay for their wives expenses and she doesn’t work.

Anyway, my “fiancée” fits the bill of what she is describing. I realized this too late, and now I’m going to give birth soon. My dad also felt discontent with my mom but stayed for my sake until I was 18. Idk what to do sometimes I can ignore it and pretend like it isn’t happening but every time a bill comes up and my “fiancée” fails to contribute yet again I grow bitter and resentful. I want to crash out and not pay stuff like internet, water and electricity just to prove a point but I have a daughter so that would negatively affect her. She stays some nights at my moms but I wouldn’t want to burden my mom like that.

So basically my “fiancée” just provides company, and occasionally will clean up and have his friend come over and do laundry for us if I’m working and I haven’t gotten to it. He does not cook at all, and feels like I as the woman should know how to cook. Spoiler warning, I don’t cook. But as I am providing for MAJORITY of the bills that is not my task nor role to partake in. It technically falls onto him to cook, clean, and do laundry. Yes he has a job but fails to contribute financially, because he blows his money on random shit. Luckily I make enough to comfortably have extra money after the bills to also buy my personal wants and needs.

I just feel sad I brought a baby into this…