Working mom

Hi! I really appreciate some insight! I currently work 24-28 hours per week. And have been for the last 4 years, since we have two children 4& 2 . My husband keeps bringing up “when I go back to work full time “ or comments about I will be returning to full time work.

I haven’t even said I wouldn’t do that but now I’m feeling extreme pressure about having to even consider going back full time! I don’t even know if I ever will want to , let alone any time soon :( my kids are so little! I don’t want someone else caring for them after school, holidays or summer time. I can’t imagine!

Is it fair for him to force me to return full time? Is this a fair conversation to have with him? I don’t want to be “selfish” but I do work! I have a job and do so much around the house and other things. Plus always driving the kids to events and things . I don’t even know who would do that if I worked. Please share any insight I am so lost and overwhelmed!