Husband seems uninterested.

So, after I had our daughter August 2019 I got on the Nexplanon. It completely wrecked my sex drive, I was actually almost repulsed by having sex. But at least once a week I would make sure I would put out. My husband would try every single day. He still spent time with me, seems to still be attracted to me, and constantly pursued me. In Oct 2022 my Bc expired and I asked him if he wanted me to get another nexplanon or not. He said no because we both agreed it seemed that was killing my libido. So I’ve been birth control free.

I got it out in December and have been in the mood ever since. But suddenly, he isn’t? He almost acts like he’s annoyed when I try to initiate. He will say he’s too tired and we’ll go to bed and then I’ll wake up in the middle of the night to pee and he’s in the bathroom and I can hear him jerking off. Several nights in a row he wanted nothing to do with me, casually or sexually and he ran to the bathroom every night after he thought I was asleep.

I asked him about it, he said we already do it “so much” and that he doesn’t jerk off. I don’t consider 2 times a week “so much”. And when we do end up having sex he doesn’t seem to enjoy himself like he used to.

Idk is this weird? It seemed like he enjoyed me more the less he got of me. Like the thrill of the chase kept him interested and now that he can get it whenever he wants he doesn’t want me. He’d rather have his hand and phone.