I need to do more for my family

Today my husband got off early like he does every thrusday and I’ve been doing everything I normally do through out the days take care of the kids and the house. Well tonight he goes on about how he has to get milk to drink because I don’t have anything for him to drink ( fill up his water bottles) and that I only think about myself, my needs and that if I did care about him I’d make sure his shit was done . But I’m on the same cup of coffee I had this morning and the kids left overs . But his work clothes are ready for tomorrow and the house will be clean when he gets off with shot meal waiting for him. We have 6 kids the littlest ones (1,2,6months) always come to me because I’m the default parent . I just don’t know what more I can do and on top of it all I have to learn how to do my makeup to look like Megan good.