I’ve already been compared to the cool girlfriends of his friends who encourage their men to go to strip clubs and oogle at women at clubs and conventions.

I’m 24 and so far, these are the only type of men i’ve found. Porn addicts, lustful, and eventually cheaters.

He has stared at his brother’s gf’s breasts in front of me and his parents. He gets lost in them if they are exposed. No one says anything, I just exchange looks with his mom. He stares at waitresses ass. We go to clubs and I’m in front of him but all he can stare at is the girl behind me dancing on a pole. Sex scenes or strip club scenes come up and he jolts and jerks and whispers damn, same with anime conventions with those girls sitting at booths. “They sure know how to pick the hot ones”. Staying near booths to get a closer look and hoping they talk to him, etc.

Am I really in the wrong here? Am i that insecure and uncool? I’m also being made fun of by his friends including friend’s gfs about how I’m restricting him from going to strip clubs and how my bf is missing out.

I’ve lost sexual attraction to him due to all of this and now he has issues with me when it comes to sex.

any advice is helpful, thank you