My husband asked me and my teenage daughters if we could help him clean the garage this Saturday. I didn't say yes or no. I just gave him a look that said, "Really?". Because it's a dump in there and it's all his mess. I don't even park in the driveway anymore because it smells like shit from when his dogs go in after he leaves the door open and the poop on things. And there was that one time he left trash and maggots started growing. He takes the trash to the garage instead of throwing it outside when it literally only takes 2 minutes to walk out to the alley. I'm justifying not helping him because I don't feel like I get that kind of help from him with other things. We don't function as a team or a good partnership and I wish we could but we dont. I'm afraid to ask but what are your thoughts?