So my man and I are expecting our first baby in June. He is the picture perfect guy.. hardworking, compassionate, an amazing lover, etc. I’m 31 and he is 28 and our age difference has never directly affected us because he is well established with a great job as a lineman and owns a home that we live in together.

Now, he was invited on a bachelor party trip to Austin Texas months back for his best mans wedding and declined because at the time he figured I was going to be super pregnant and we have a lot to do before baby comes. Now mind you, I never influenced that decision nor told him he couldn’t go.. he had decided that on his own.

Fast forward, the bachelor party was last weekend and his buddy called him from Texas who is recently NEWLY engaged and he started mentioning something about talking and hanging out with this girl at the bar and carrying on about how they were trying to make her boyfriend mad and blah blah blah.. as he is talking to my man on the phone my man starts lowering the volume so I can’t hear what his friend is saying. I can tell

My man is not trying to have this conversation in front of me and hurry’s to end the call.. he hangs up and I immediately open my mouth and ask him what the fuck that was all about? Isn’t this the guy who’s recently engaged and been with his girl for a minute? I basically grilled him because it pissed me off.. maybe it’s the pregnancy hormones or maybe it’s just because I think men like that are just scumbags who can’t even go away to a bachelor party without acting like a feral animal.. 🙄

I think this has a lot to do with the fact that all of his friends are younger and just not at the same level mentally and financially as my man. He’s at a different place in his life whereas his friends I think are still in that very immature phase.. I completely and totally trust my man and have no issues with him being honest or faithful but the whole situation rubbed me the wrong way. How am I supposed to feel when he goes out with these guys? I’m past a point in my life where I feel like I need to be worried about the petty bullshit and the immaturity. Sorry for the long post, just venting!