Sex blues

I am having a fit with controlling myself sexually..my husband isn't very giving and sex makes me feel turned on extremely and let down..then we have our ovulation time where sex is impossible..I masturbate n it helps a little but it makes me an animal..i am so short fused..my boobs are so swollen and hurts all the time even hurting under my arms all the time..so painful..I have talked to him and no changes..I out of options..I am so teased to the point of tears - http://glowing.com/community/topic/72057594038653907?utm_source=android&utm_medium=shared_to_third_party&utm_campaign=glow_community