Ok so I have yet to have the earth shattering wet orgasms. I usually get these. 1. Build uo of pleasure and then a release no shaking no numbness. 2. Build up of pressure and a feeling my vagina is sneezing LOL. Hate the second because it comes on to strong and his scary. I only get the shaking legs one when I use jets or a shower head not by sex. I often doubt I orgasmed when its #1. It feels so mediocre comparex to the earth shattering orgasms or the "little death" Lol I want that intense orgasm that is not #2. Sometimes I am worried my expectations of sex are to high... I really want that earth shattering experience. Anyways is #1 qualify as a orgasm it feels like one because its a build up and then a release. Its just so... subtle! Anyone else relate of these?