Mother Issues, help?

**Lengthy but PLEASE read** I feel like my mother has completely ruined my life. She got an apartment, electric, & cable bill in my name totaling up to $14,000 but she did it when I was 19 while I was living with my dad. I had just gotten a great job, nice benefits and was ready to tackle the world on my own but my dream was crushed as I found out in August 2020 when it popped up on my credit and unfortunately felt like I couldn’t do anything because I was living with her and didn’t have anywhere to stay. I moved out in November 2020 and she said she would pay it back but I realized she was lying went to the rental office to gather information and when I got there they were super shocked and asked me to verify my identity … you’ll never guess why. My mother lied and told them I had caught COVID and DIED while having her friend vouch for her and put my deceased grandmother (my dad’s mom who raised me) down as another person to reach out and confirm I was dead. Fast forward I moved back so I still felt like I couldn’t do anything I was also going through so much I felt like I didn’t want extra stress and in Aug 2021 I tried to commit suicide, I became homeless in Nov 2021 after she allowed my sister’s boyfriend who said he was going to kill me to still come around and I wasn’t comfortable. Feb 2022 I found out I was pregnant the same time I had gotten my new apartment, Dec 2022 found out I was pregnant again. Is it still too late to take action? I feel like I had to settle with my apartment, it’s not in such a great area (gunshots frequently) , and I moved in when it was just me now I have two children and with a recent problem of mice since the tenant next door moved out last month. I just want to be able to breathe and have my babies in a good environment but I feel like she’s gotten in the way of that. I honestly blame her because I wasn’t able to make my own mistakes, I never knew how important credit was. I’ve talked to family about it and all they’ve said is that her mom did the same thing to her so she doesn’t know any better but she’s done this to all four of her kids INCLUDING putting a cable bill in my 2 year old niece’s name.