I have a low sex drive… help! Advice???!?

I have a low sex drive and my bf has a super crazy high sex drive. He could get off so many times a day if we had sex that many times. Only time I feel like I can feel good and have sex I’m drunk. During the day not so much. Ever since I have my kid 2 years ago it went downhill… and we used to be so kinky and love to have sex 1-4x a day😂😅 but I hate that I’m this way. He’s been telling me I’m not fun anymore and it makes me feel like shit. But he’s also an ass most times and it turns me off. No matter how many times I tell him that’s why he just avoids it. I’m thinking that’s why? Or maybe he needs booty more so he don’t act like that. Bc he’s told me if he gets booty or gets off he’s in a better mood. And if he can’t have sex he wants to watch p0rn. And I don’t like him doing that.. he respects me for it. And I’d get him off every time if I had a higher sex drive 😩 I just hate not being the same. Anybody have advice????

Also he’s 28 I’m 23.