My midwife gave this huge lecture about why we need to get it done, she explained that it would help us decide if we want to terminate the pregnancy. My SO looked her straight in the eye and said "the baby will be loved regardless if something is " wrong" with them, it's our child and nothing would make us terminate this pregnancy!" And she snickered at him and said "don't you want to know if you're going to have difficulties raising the child?" In which I butted in with "you're going to have 'difficulties' with ANY child".. Anyone else like that? Or did I bitch out my midwife for nothing?