Frustrated.... Venting...

Begging the new year sick with no voice and once again, another month of trying down the drain.. Literally. 2016 will start our 8th month of trying.. I'm so upset and frustrated. We bought a sperm test for my husband since he's on a high dose of testosterone which can make him have a low sperm count but he has to go over 2 days without getting off before he can do the test which seems to be almost impossible for him... So it's been like 3 weeks since we bought the test and he still hasn't taken it.... I know he wants another baby too but I feel like it's not as big of a deal to him and its so frustrating.. 2016 is definitely starting out very depressing & frustrating.. :(. Sorry, just needed to vent