Should I break the engagement ???

So I’ve been engaged for a year. My fiancé and I live an hour apart. We talked often at the beginning about getting a house together. He expects me to move to his town because he has a higher earning job.

I have made it clear that if I am going to give up everything in this town, then move to be with him, then  there should be something good in it for me.

He currently rents and has not owned a home since his divorce eight years ago. I own my home and I’m well settled in our community. My kids go to school here and have jobs here.

we were talking about marriage often and at the beginning of the year, he just kind of stopped. I asked him recently why and he said it was because of stress at work. Actually, I’ve asked him several times and he’s gotten more and more reticent about it-

While at the same time, he keeps telling me we are going to get married and I want to marry you. He comes to see me often, and seems to enjoy spending time together. I honestly cannot tell if he actually is going to marry or not.  Why in the world should I do??

My list of cons- way longer than my list of pros.

But he can be so kind and is so happy to see me when we get together at the end of the week.

Am I a fool????