This rape topic is bringing up some heated opinions on both sides.  I just want to say that as a person who's been raped and as a therapist myself, please go to counseling.  It's never too late.  You shouldnt have unresolved issues, feel afraid sometimes, or be triggered by someone you love.  It's possible to heal from from trauma, from ptsd, and find a better way of living.  It may takes months or years depending on the experience, but please talk to someone!  It doesn't go away on its own.