making the first move??

my guy and i are exclusively seeing each other atm

we’ve known each other for years through friends and have been together sexually for over a year

it’s been so long and i’m so comfortable with him yet i’m always too nervous to make the first move

i pep talk myself into doing something first but chicken out - he’s even openly admitted that he’d like if i initiate but i always wait for him

my lack of initiation is starting to annoy me bc he said he feels like a perv bc he’s always the one to make it sexual first

HELP!! I wanna surprise him soon >_<