My husband got paid $400 bucks last night doing an off duty police job. He’s spends it all on his car.. I could barely get enough groceries with my tiny paycheck today. I still need more groceries. We have two kids and I’m pregnant with our third. But every time he gets extra money that we NEED for our family. He spends it on his car. He’s spending $200 bucks on a new sub and some stupid cover for it. But when I try to tell him it needs to be spent on important things he says “why can’t I ever spend money I make on things that I want” I’m not aloud to have a say in anything. Even though he ALWAYS says I’m in control of the finances. Apparently not.