My self conscious

My husband and I have 3 small kids together but we have pretty good and and more than regular sex life. I’ve just hit perimenopause and feel bloated and waves of mood throughout the day. so I’m really self conscious about my tummy. I know I should exercise and I do for a period of time and my energy crashes, especially with my 3 kids. Yesterday, after sex hubby tells me, lately I’m not relaxed while doing the deed. Yeah, sometimes it is because of the kids, or needs to be a quickie and I also said I feel a bit self conscious about my tummy, because I see that he never touches me there. And then I burst out crying. He tried to console me by saying that’s not true and took me in his arms. It just it didn’t seem that he was really denying it either. I don’t know if it’s just me projecting, I’m 138lbs but my body has changed a bit. I’ve bought these diet pills which was a waste of money. By the response of my husband, do you think he finds part of my body unattractive?