Frustrated

My boyfriend doesn’t understand what it’s like to be pregnant and taking care of an infant. Our room was dirty, BECAUSE OF HIM! he gets mad at me and calls me a lazy bull, and says things like i don’t understand the importance of cleaning when i’m literally the reason the rest of the house STAYS clean, i told him that and he had the audacity to say “ no your not you just take credit for it” as if i don’t have pictures and videos for proof. Then he gets home and eats peacefully while I have our daughter , as I’m in the middle of making me something to eat, he hops in the shower.. so now i don’t have that chance to eat in peace like he did. I actually never had that chance. Even when we go out to eat , i’m the one feeding her and trying to feed myself. Anytime I try to talk to him about it he makes me feel like a bad mom and tells me all i do is complain. I’m just getting frustrated at this point.