Stay at home moms

How do you and your partner handle money. Does he give you money? Do you buy whatever you want? I’m getting tired of being a stay at home mom because my husband makes it seem like the money all belongs to him. I do everything for this man clean, cook, make him lunch, wash his clothes, take care of the kids. I don’t ask him for help unless he is off cause he works a lot of hours and his job is heavy. I do buy small stuff for myself. But I have no say in finances. He buys whatever he wants and not cheap and I can’t say crap since he’s the one that works and it’s “his money”