Discouraged about 10 month old baby sleep

Hello mamas, I am feeling so discouraged and like all of the “sleep experts” and blogs have been lying to me or setting false expectations about baby sleep. My daughter is almost 10 months now and it hasn’t been the easiest. She has hit every sleep regression and she has hit them hard. She was sleep trained just to recover from the 4 month sleep regression chaos (but hasn’t been night weened) and she is currently in the 10 month sleep regression which in my opinion is the worst one yet. She wakes up every 2 hrs now expecting a feed and for a lot of reasons I am struggling to night ween her. I feel frustrated with all the baby sleep advice available online. It contradicts itself, gives you false hope, or makes you feel like a failure because your baby isn’t “sleeping through the night” like she should be. I never imagined baby sleep would be this hard and I thought it was supposed to get easier the older they get… not harder. And now I hear there is a 12 month sleep regression coming too??! Is there hope?