Just need to vent

Today is my birthday 😓 I don’t care about how much money someone spends on me or anything. I very rarely get gifts which I don’t complain about but I just like to do something fun. See my family & hangout with my husband all day. I had a plan for today, go out to breakfast with my hubby & kids, booker myself a massage, then go to the fair with my kids & sister & then out to dinner with my husband & grab some drinks with our friends after. Not too extreme or too much to ask for I don’t think. Well today he woke up at 10 & wouldn’t take me out to breakfast, got a flat tire & couldn’t go get my massage, my sister cancelled on the fair cause she said she made plans with her husband instead, then my husband decided to pick up a shift at work so we can’t go to dinner, then my friend cancelled on drinks cause she decided to go our of town with her boyfriend. Been cleaning my house & watching all 3 of my kids alone all day just crying my eyes out. My husband said, “you’re 27 not 12 your birthday doesn’t matter stop crying like a little kid” I’m just so miserable & feel like no one cares about me. Am I overreacting like he said? I’ve been having a really rough year and I NEVER do anything for myself I just wanted to have a nice day. The only gift I got was a card with $10 in it from my mom I just feel so awful 😞 I can’t stop crying