Girlfriend advice
So I been in my relationship for a bit, and we only see eachother on weekends. She lives an hour away so she drives to mine or I drive to hers when I don’t have my 3 year old. Lately I been feeling a bit down, because I get she works full time Monday to Friday, and I am studying full time nursing so im at tafe everyday other than Tuesday.
But, whenever I don’t have my daughter I will go sleep at hers during the week.. and it’s very rare I don’t have my daughter during the week.
I just feel like everytime she says “ I miss you and wish we could cuddle” I’m like well we can? Come to mine? Like an hour is nothing, but the thing is she wants that 30 minute sleep in the morning at her parents , and at mine she will have to get up 30 minutes earlier.. and everytime I say, come to mine tonight .. it’s “ mmm” and she doesn’t say anything..
we are also trying to find a house, but if I don’t say “ let’s look at houses tonight “ we won’t even look at houses..
I don’t know, I’m just feeling a bit meh.
Yesterday she was having a down day, and I didn’t have tafe cause I have a big test tomorrow ( Wednesday ) so yesterday I went and surprised her at her work, and brought her flowers, and bath stuff, and candles and her favourite drink and snack food. Even though it took me an hour to get there and I have so many assessments to do, I made the effort cause I wanted to brighten her day.
I just feel like she could make the effort to see me during the week once, I’m not asking every night, but one night during the week… other than just weekends. It’s really getting me down, I have mentioned it a few times and a few weeks ago she said “ yeah we can trail it “ but it never happens .. and I don’t understand.
Everytime we speak on the phone I feel like the conversation is just always about her. Don’t get me wrong , she’s a lovely beautiful person, and she does make me happy and does things for me that I haven’t experienced with anyone else! But I’m just having a down time with it all, and I don’t know what to do.
Can anyone give me advice?
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