But it’s the same thing….right???

My husband came home and we were talking and he starts to cry how he has no friends

he had a friend of 33 years up until 2018 when I caught my husband on dating sites he SWEARS he was only there to boost his image

Oddly when this all came to light his best friend POOF from my husband life no calls no texts no coming around anymore (I STILL think that’s weird) he won’t even text my husband back 🤷‍♀️

Anyways he goes on to say I have no friends I wish I had someone to hangout with tears streaming down his face

I said I know I wish the same for me I’m at home all day with the toddler and running 2 teens around

He said ehhhhh it’s different I NEED someone to hangout with and do stuff with and go fishing and stuff

I said

Oh i get it I wish I did too but it is what it is I guess. Maybe reach out to Jason idk why he never hangs out with you anymore 🤷‍♀️ plus my wants are no different than yours. We both wish we had friends and we don’t.

He said yeah you don’t get it, it is different

I said how so?

He started getting angry and shouted I DONT KNOW IT JUST FUCKING IS!!!

I said ok well idk make friends at work? Make friends at the gym? Make friends with people you see when you go fishing?

He said nah I don’t wanna do that.

I said ok i mean if I was getting out of the house as often as you do I’d try to make friends but I’m stuck here running the kids to school, to practice, to their friends house, etc

Are these thing’s different???