Am I being too sensitive?

My daughter was born in 2020 and that was after years of unexplained infertility. I mean I went through every single test, clomid, Letrozole and all the doctors visits.

I’m now 8 weeks with number 2. We just left it up to God. In July we went on a family vacation and conceived after we got home. I guess it relaxed us. Lol.

Anyways, we announced on Tuesday. Since then I have had shocking amount of people ask me, “was this one planned?” or “did you plan it?” It’s really bothering me because that’s super rude. At least o think so. My husband says that it actually a very common question and there’s nothing rude about it at all. I mean, I’ve never asked anyone “did you mean to get pregnant?” That’s none of my business. If they wanted to say something that’s their thing and nothing of mine.

Am I just being sensitive?