Ladies who have had miscarriages, how do you cope with the stress of becoming pregnant again? I feel like I'm constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop. I'm looking for blood every time I use the restroom and questioning every little symptom. The last time I had none, but this time I feel intermittently nauseous and have tender breasts. I don't feel much cramping, but definitely a heaviness. It all seems familiar from the first successful pregnancy, but as I approach the time in this pregnancy that I lost the last, I feel panicked. How do you handle it?