Feeling out of the loop

danirose. • emilia belle 02.08.16 evangeline lee 08.28.20
I have not been happy with my doctors. I'm sad that as a FTM I haven't had such a great experience at my prenatal appointments. Since I am a FTM, I expected my doctors to give me information at each appointment. But they don't tell me anything. They do ask if I have questions, but I never know what to ask! Honestly, if it wasn't for this app, I wouldn't even have known about the tdap vaccine (I brought it up; no one even told me!) among many other things. I wasn't even told to do the glucose test until I was 30 weeks. I just feel like I'm missing out on so much information.
I'm now 35 weeks so I guess I'm just nervous since baby is due very soon and I have no idea what I'm getting into. Can anyone suggest questions I should ask my doctors? Are there things I should be asking or learning about? Or is my experience normal? Any advice greatly appreciated!