What happened?

Now I understand why everyone post’s anonymously. What happened to being able to get real advice on this app? Without the added rudeness or sly remarks? I thought this was supposed to be a safe space to talk about anything, but it seems more like judgement than anything. Every post I see with comments, there’s someone, if not multiple people, being rude as hell for no reason. I’d get it if the post was ridiculous, but when people are genuinely reaching out for advice… wtf. It’s reasons like this why I have little faith in humanity.