Bummed

I knew what I got myself into when I decided to get with my husband who has hsv 2. We were very careful in protecting me from getting the virus, but it wasn’t enough. Yesterday I found out that I to have hsv2, and my doctor said that even if my husband doesn’t have an outbreak, I can still contain the virus. So whether if we were careful or not, I would still get it.. I don’t believe had an outbreak yet, but just the thought of this is very depressing. I know I have to get used to this, it’s my new normal now. My thing is, can I still try for a baby? Could my 2 year old daughter catch the virus too,? Should I have her tested..because I’m afraid idk how long I’ve had this, or if I caught this before I got pregnant with her. Please I don’t want to be alone in this.