Newly husband out till 5am

My husband and I are struggling and I just need to know if he’s right or am I. We got married a few months ago and a few months prior to that I found naked pictures on his phone with our friends’ faces edited on. I was hurt and even more hurt to find out he paid for naked images of a porn star. We had already agreed to not pay for porn so I felt disrespected. We talked and I gave him a chance to prove himself but if not, I would divorce him.

Well tonight he went out with his best friend and told me they were just getting food. I told him to text me what they were getting so he could bring me back something. Well midnight came around and no text so I went to bed. Woke up around 2:30am and still hasn’t heard back so I called him and turns out he’s at a club. I’m upset because I was never texted anything and his best friend is a single pig who I don’t trust. He said he’d be home soon so I went back to bed. Woke up again at 4am and he still wasn’t home or had texted me. No bar or club is open past this time so I started getting upset wondering what he was doing. One thing led to another and we got into an argument.

He was upset that I was trying to ruin his night when he’s a grown ass man and can what he wants. And I told him I’m upset because I don’t trust him and he didn’t even text me once. He told me why am I being like this again and I told him it’s because I don’t trust him and he said excuses and I brought up what he did earlier this year and that pushed him over the edge. He said well at least I didn’t fuck somebody else and I said yeah we were broken up and that was 7 years ago, yours was this year and while we were engaged too. He got mad and told me he wasn’t sleeping in bed with someone he doesn’t trust.

Now I’m not saying we’re perfect Ik we have stuff to work out but I’m trying to trust him. It’s not like I don’t at all. But 100%? No. So why is he so mad? Doesn’t he get that he was lying and cheating and being gross this year so why would I be so chill with him staying out till almost 5am with his friend who’s known for being a ladies man and bad influence. Of course ima get suspicious when he’s not texting me and he’s bouncing from bar to club to bar. And when I ask where he’s at and no club or bar is open past 3am he sends me a pic of chips and a beer on a table and says eating chips. Like I didn’t ask what you were doing and he never answered my question. Instead he was telling me to fuck off for bringing up what he did and how it has nothing to do with him being out. And how I’m sad and selfish and jealous he’s out so I’m trying to ruin his night. How he can’t sleep in bed with me and I need to think about what I did.

To make matters worse I just feel like I’m in my parents’ marriage. My dad used to go out, drinking staying out till 5 or 6 am and never letting my mom know where he was. He’d come home drunk and be flirty when he’s out. My husband knows this very well so idk why it didn’t occur to him I was feeling this way. It’s hard to trust someone who betrayed you months prior to your wedding. And to trust him with a bad influence around girls and alcohol and not at least reassuring me he’s okay or where he’s at…I’m struggling. We just got married 2.5 months ago