WHERE DO I LIVE!!!

I'm having a really hard time at the moment 😭
I'm currently living with my fiancé in South Africa. He is a South African and my dad also lives here. 
I moved here in Febuary and I LOVE it here. It is very dangerous but the people we know are the most amazing people I've ever met. It's beautiful here but my mum and family is back home in the UK and my fiancé wants to move there but it's soooo hard to get him a visa where it's so easy for me to stay here. 
I need advice on how I can make this dicision! 
So do I take the easy route but work hard to earn money and live in a dangerous area BUT be happy.. 
OR
Do I take the hard route but make good money and have my family around me too! 
Help me! 😭