Step mom ?

Question

So I've been in a pretty serious relationship w/ a guy who has 2 beautiful boys. Can anyone give any advice to help w/ baby momma drama or how I should act ? Like diciplining his kids ect. ? I'm not a parent so I'm not sure how to act like one. Don't get me wrong, I love his children but I don't really know where my boundaries are & things like that. Plus his baby momma puts a lot of stress on our relationship because she's super jealous & still in love w/ him. So it can get really difficult for me & him. & he said I'm not aloud to beat her ass, so I need a more civil way of dealing w/ her. 🙄☺️

Answer

Okayyyyy babe. First off, disciplining his children is not your job. Playing step mom is also not your job. Honestly, it's best to stay in your place as his girlfriend and just be around if he needs extra help, don't step in as another mother figure.
Trying to play that role will only complicate the biological mothers relationship with you aswell as your boyfriends.

Answer

if your boyfriend is asking you to be the stepmom role do it! if that's what he wants then you shouldn't feel weird about it. you don't need to hit the kids or anything, but you don't need to feel weird about saying no or putting them in time out. it'll get easier with time. and most importantly, if you feel weird, ask what's okay. ask your boyfriend what you can do and where the lines are drawn.

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