Is this worth saving?

Question

Me and my ex boyfriend were together for almost 4 years. we got together really young (14) but it was genuine. our relationship was toxic from both sides for a while and eventually i was the only one attempting to change and make it healthier. we broke up about 4 months ago because he was disloyal. we started talking recently and were doing better at communicating and i thought we were on the same page until he sent those messages and now i just don’t know if we could try again. what do you think?

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No. Absolutely not. And you’re so young! Don’t waste any more time on this fool

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No no no please no!! He is basically telling you that he likes being able to go out and be disloyal, while still having you there to fall back on! Even though it hurts you and you guys fight about it, he’s fine with that because it’s exciting to him. He gets to have you and everyone else too and just deals with the consequences as excitement! I know you guys are young, but that is still disgusting behavior on his part. Do.Not.Get.Back.Together! And do not think or hold on to any false hopes that he will change because he already told you is isn’t and that he doesn’t want to. I’m not trying to hurt you or sound mean ❤️ but I need you to realize what this boy is doing and remember all the bad he’s continuously done to you, and get MAD 😡. You need to use the angry in a healthy way tho! You need to use it to STAY AWAY from him! Don’t even engage with him anymore. You need to get so mad that you realize you never deserved the pain and betrayal and he’s basically making jokes out of your hurt. He doesn’t care, and you need to block him and try your hardest it to care. You’ll be embarrassed one day that you even entertained him lol I know I am with my high school bf!

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He told you what you needed to know. “I don’t think I can change entirely.” Believe him girl! Don’t waste your time

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No, girl you deserve so much batter. There is someone out there who is always going to choose you. Over everyone else. They’ll put in the work, and they’ll do anything to keep you. This isn’t it.

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He could’ve easily said yes I’ll do anything to change for you, it’s actually sad but he’s being honest. You’re not the girl he wants because he would’ve easily tried to change if you were. 😔 Now it’s up to you if you want to deal with that for the rest of your relationship with him.

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