Not diagnosed but have all symptoms.

Wondering why my doctor doesn’t say I have this even though I have all the symptoms. Does anyone have a good list of questions to ask the doctor?

-Missed periods

-light, spotting between periods

-sometimes bright spotting sometimes light pink spotting

-Very heavy bleeding when missed periods actually arrives, soaking through super tampon 2 hours max

-generally worried about health

-overweight by 50-60 pounds but told I don’t look overweight.

-45 y/o but feel young and still want another baby (considering egg donor since other fertility treatments haven’t worked last 6 years)

-work stress since understaffed

-have been getting swollen ankles lately and doctors don’t see anything wrong in blood work or appearance. The day I went to the doctor they were of course not swollen.

-How do you find a hormonal specialist. I’m not sure the regular doctors are doing the right blood work panel? What should I have checked and is there a better time of the month to try to get blood work done?