Is he lying?

I feel like the guy I hook up with is acting really sus. We’ve been hooking up for 7 months. He acts weird about me being around/friends with other dudes, wants me to dress a certain way especially on social medias, wants to know what I’m doing and who my friends are, pushes for consistent communication, etc. Today we were talking about having sex and then he randomly asked about a certain time and said it was so he could “have time to chill at home”. It sounded really odd so I started to question him. He said it’s so that he could play video games and clean his kitchen. But it seemed odd because 1- he plays video games every night and it’s never interrupted anything. 2- he lives in an apartment and his kitchen is really small. So I kept pushing still and he was saying that it shouldn’t be a big deal because we “just fuck” (but then always wants to know what I’m doing??) and then told me that he was thinking of asking his ex (they shared a child together but the child passed and they’re still friends) if she would be able to come over and help him clean. Which she has done before and she has a boyfriend. But as we talked about it it was literally like 9-9:30 at night already. I’m definitely assuming that he was fucking someone else after or something, which wouldn’t be my business EXCEPT he made this “deal” that we don’t sleep with other people. Mind you, I know for a fact if I was as avoidant as he’s being to me, he’d be pissedddd.