Let me start by saying I’ve had 9 losses in total(all different from a missed mc, chemicals, blighted ovum, typical mc-all before 10 wks). Haven’t been pregnant since 2018.

I’ve had some weird UTI type stuff that I had to go to the ER for about 12 days ago. Urine was normal except some blood mixed in. At that date, I was about 4-5 days after my last period and it was an unusually long one. I typically bleed for 5 days and that one was 10, maybe longer(I believe I had tested to be sure I wasn’t miscarrying and it was neg)

Uti symptoms(especially right kidney pain)are still present but all my labs look normal. We have a CT scheduled.

Tonight, I started spotting. I’m a week before my period and I’m like clockwork when it comes to starting my period. Like Glow is ALWAYS right give it take a day, two max so this is odd!

Now I’m full on bleeding and the pain in my kidney is worse than when I went to the ER. I tested and it’s negative. But something just seems off. The cramps are all in my back, too. Can an ectopic seem like a UTI or kidney infection/stone? And can you have an ectopic and have negative tests? Google says yes to both but have any of you experienced something similar? Or maybe this is just a weird period?

What makes this crazy is that my hubby and I were just talking about having another baby last night, whether that be me carrying or another route. Maybe my uterus heard us talking and decided to remind me that I’m crazy for considering ttc again. 🙄

Also when I called, the nurse at the ER said I’d know if it was an ectopic. And until I’m passing out in the floor from the pain, there’s not much they can do as labs are sent out.