Am I being extra 😶

I recently had an abortion for personal reason. I couldn’t carry the baby because I just g head abdominal surgery! I would never use this as birth control. We were using condoms but clearly they aren’t 100 percent effective. My boyfriend usually stays over like twice a week. Since I had the abortion a little over a week ago he’s been mia 🤔 He hasn’t came over at all so I said something to him today because I feel like he was clearly only coming around for sex. I don’t want him to come for sex I just want him to come comfort me and talk. He told me I’m overreacting and I’m completely wrong. Now he mysteriously wants to come over tonight because I said something. Do you guys think I’m being extra or are my feeling valid.