Hi! Please don’t leave any negative or mean comments. I’m just genuinely looking for some positive advice. I have a 3 year old daughter. Everyone warned me about the “terrible twos”, but no one could have ever prepared me for year 3. Ever since my daughter turned 3, everything has been out of control. Constant tantrums over any and everything. From daylight till dark. It doesn’t matter what I take away or what I say, she is very stubborn. She gets into everything & destroys it. She screams at us now and tells us she hates us. She throws things at us. Bedtime is the most difficult. It’s a constant battle each night getting her to sleep. She comes up with every excuse to not go to bed. She will yell and kick the walls. I have lots of neighbors so I try to reason with her to figure out a solution to not be so noisy. I just feel like as a parent I messed up somewhere along the way. It’s really embarrassing in public when she’s throwing tantrums and no matter what I do or say, the tantrum continues. She doesn’t listen to anything I say and everything she says is negative now. Is there any advice y’all could give me? I feel like I’m failing as a mom, and the days are so long like this. I want to enjoy these years with my daughter and it’s so so hard.