Should we have kids

My fiancé and I have been talking about having children and sometimes he gets excited about it and sometimes he acts like he doesn’t want the responsibility.

Whenever we are in public and there is a crying baby, he always says that he’s glad we don’t have to deal with that. Which in the moment, I agree. lol

I think he would be a good father and I think he will love it more when the baby gets older and can do things with him. But when it’s under 3 years old, I think he will have a hard time with all the crying, and waking up in the morning and getting no sleep and changing diapers.

So I’ve been thinking maybe we shouldn’t have any children. But I don’t want to regret it one day.

Any advice ??

Have any of your bfs / husbands turned out to be amazing fathers when you didn’t think that they would be ??