Hi ladies ..

I’m a bride to be early next year and right now my hubby & I are spending every pay check of ours on what we need / want for the wedding so we’re on a budget with Christmas gifts 😓 we both have a huge family & I feel like my side are more on the expecting something bc they’re buying us something which we don’t care for Christmas gifts in general. It’s fine with our little ones just receiving them bc they’re the kids ..

Anyways am I wrong for not wanting to give anyone a gift besides our parents and the little kids in the family? 😭 like how do I tell certain family members we’re not giving out presents this year bc of our wedding but what’s a nice way to tell them .. even my husband is saying no one should be upset . They should be understanding.. at this point I just want to stay home with just my little family and not attend any family events for Christmas but I feel bad if we do that bc of our little ones 😒 last year we didn’t spend time with anyone & they loved it just being us but I still feel bad bc I wouldn’t want them missing out on the events bc of my hubs & I funds rn ..😓