4th loss in a row 💔

🌙Wifelit💫 • Cosmic birther 🌔🌓🌒🌑🌕🌖🌗🌘

TW This post is meant to provide insight for other who may be experiencing what I am.

I truly pray that no one else has to endure the emotional upheavals of recurrent miscarriages.

Unfortunately I know that I am not alone in this and there’s others out there who’ve had their own struggles. It devastating to endure and I personally feel my doctors have failed me significantly and their negligence has resulted in 4 miscarriages back to back since May 2023!

I’ve requested after my 2nd, & 3rd MC to have my uterine fibroid removed and to have hormonal testing done. Each time I request my doctor has declined stating “It’s not necessary as I’ve given birth 2 years ago” I’ve expressed multiple times that I’m older now (35) and things change significantly as you age, so it’s not out of the realms of possibility that my health could have changed since I gave birth.

My doctor continued to ignore all my request and made me feel irrational for even requesting testing. After my 3rd she still didn’t send me for testing!! Now I’m having my 4th and she hasn’t even contacted me! At this point I’m going to fire her and establish somewhere else. I’m even considering looking into a malpractice suit as her negligence has lead to 4 deaths of my unborn babies because she refused to do her job.

Anyway my point is, Mamas out there dealing with this please always be your own advocate and demand what you want because these doctors are truly useless.