parenting issues

I fell sick on my boyfriends birthday and he was pretty bummed out about it. I felt so bad we couldn’t celebrate because I was in bed majority of the day. My mom and sister baby sat that whole day. The next day I felt somewhat better but still not good. I still had our baby all day (Because he gets up throughout the night usually). Now the third day I slept in another room because my cough got worse and I don’t want to get our 2 month old sick. This morning he wakes up to bring me the baby.

So I’m kind of on the fence. I understand he needs his sleep too and I don’t expect him to do it all himself. My mom and sister are in the same house and always offer help. But he hasn’t tried to keep our kid a full day to let me rest, he hasn’t offered me anything not even a glass of water. The only thing he has said this whole time is “ How convenient you get sick on my birthday, I kept him part of the day you barely had him you can keep him, why did you leave the room? I’m tired. You want me to feel like you next?”