How to make oral more enjoyable??

Question

My boyfriend loves to go down on me and I would be lying if I said I didn’t enjoy it. However, I can never finish from when he goes down on me, or sometimes it’s not enough for me to feel remotely close to finishing. I’m not sure if it’s just me, because the idea of him going down on me is just insanely hot, but I just can’t finish. What are some tips so I can actually finish this way??

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Maybe you and him need to talk to each other while doing the deed. I had this problem when my bf and I first started dating. It wasn’t that he didn’t know how to eat pussy, he just didn’t know how to do it to me to make me finish. We worked on it for a few months & now he can actually make me squirt and orgasm while doing the deed. He just needs to find the right tempo and spot to lick when you are close and keep the motion/tempo going until you finish. Hope y’all can figure it out. It is quite frustrating.

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Sometimes you’re so focused on sounding good or looking good. If communicating during isnt helping, and you still feel the same maybe try to have the room pitch black and just focus on your breathing and the actual feeling of his tongue around and on your vagina. Also, teasing is a HUGE thing for me. Have him kiss around your vagina, rub his nose right over your labias, breathing right over it, having him tell you that “pussy smells amazing”, (even if its a lie cause pussy really shouldn’t smell at all), him saying things like “god I can’t wait to demolish that pussy”. Just a few things to help😌

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Tell him what you like as it’s happening and he will learn! Also, lean into the pleasure of the process itself, too

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Babe, that's totally normal for many women. I'm exactly the same - doesnt matter what you do, it'll still be the same. Just be okay with the fact it isn't your thing and don't get hung up on it. If you want to add toys to it, try that but girl do many of us just allow men to eat us out because they like it when really we're just waiting for it to end so we can get to doing something we want to do 🤣

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Tell him to write the alphabet on your clit with his tongue!!! And there are vibrators you can insert into the vagina with a remote control he could mess with the settings because the element of surprise gets YA!!! Plus nipple stimulation!! 
Takes a lot more to get to that big O for a women so there is no shame in sex toys etc

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Grab his head and guide him. Ride his face while grabbing his head.

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I had an ex that loved loved oral and sire it felt good but I never finished either but I didn’t find it hot . Just made me wonder if he liked the way my pussy looked because I have fat lips and inner lips just ugly to me . Just uneven which I’ve watch porn and is normal . There are so many kinds of vaginas and nothing wrong with mine . But even though I know that I’d would just get tense and insecure.

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Find a video of what u like a guy to do and watch it together

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Okay so I don’t think many people get into techniques and critiques when it comes to this subject, I can’t finish when I receive head unless the person sucks on it; explore what you find pleasurable

How to make oral more enjoyable??

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